Monday, July 20, 2009

Still the One

Allika was gone on Father's Day, and since Van isn't my daddy, we decided to wait to observe it. Well, one thing has led to another over the last few weeks, and we haven't gotten a chance to celebrate until this Sunday.

I was trying to do something really special for Van because he has been such a wonderful husband and father, especially over the last few months. He's really picked up the slack for me, and I haven't always been the most easiest person to live with.

I thought a hot air balloon ride over the St. Croix Valley would be perfect. We have both really wanted to do that, and I had decided that when I got through all of this cancer stuff, I was going to do the things I had always thought would be fun. There's only one little problem with that valiant resolution. It's called $800 dollars.

So, I set my sights a little lower and reserved a spot on a dinner cruise down the St. Croix River. I think we may have even kept it a secret which is very difficult for Allika to do.

Here are some pictures.

The Boat

Allika and Her Daddy

The Jazz Band that serenaded us throughout our ride

Van and Allika waiting for dinner. Wish I had taken pictures of the spread. It was so delicious.

The Polowchaks

The Scenery

After the boat ride, we had another little surprise up our sleeves. It wasn't anything big, but it's something we've never done before and have always wanted to try. We went to a drive-in movie. What a phenomenon! I never realized how much fun those were. Of course, we didn't know you were supposed to bring your grill, lawn chairs, footballs, frisbees, soccer balls, etc. It was one big old huge tailgating party. We got there early since the movie wasn't starting until dark, so we had plenty of time to walk around. Allika climbed several trees and did some exploring while I snapped a few photos.

Such a neat place

Our Motorcycle Babe

Two hours before the movie...Filling up fast

Climbing trees while we waited

Waiting for Ice Age 3

To top the evening off, we gave Van a gift certificate to Half-Price Books (his favorite book store) and a recycled Father's Day card which I had thrown at him on Father's Day. This time, however, I had actually signed it and handed it to him nicely. I suppose I shall have to explain.

Like I said, back in June we had decided not to do anything for Father's Day, but I didn't want to let the day go by without even acknowledging Van, so I bought him one of those musical cards that played "Still the One." Well, I spent more money on more stuff, too, and when I got home, there was a discussion about the spending of the money. For the record, he was right and I was wrong. Of course, that is not usually the case, but this time, it was.

Anyway, the disagreement ended with me throwing the card at him and following that with the receipt so he could return it and get the money back.(I can be very vicious when I throw paper, people. Okay?)

So, he opens the card to hear this: "You're still the one I run to, the one that I belong to, you're still the one I want for life. You're still the one that I love, the only one I dream of, you're still the one I kiss good night."

He kept the card without a signature and threw away the receipt.

And that, my friends, is why I gave him the same card again, only this time I signed it and wrote something special.

And thus ended our celebration of Father's Day. I love you, Van. You're still the one.


  1. The story about the card was even better the 2nd time around :). and now I know why you didn't get back to me yesterday. Sounds like an incredibly exciting day! Good for you for making today be the day of your dreams and wishes instead of dreaming and never doing. Anyway, Meme's memorial service will be Wednesday, September 23 in Middlebury. This message is for the whole family, too, since I expect we all read Tani's blog. I don't expect anyone to come, but I knew you all wanted to know the date. Love you, Mom.

  2. Now that mom has seen this, I just can't wait
    until next father's day. Just kidding. Sounds like you all over...real alive and
    full of what used to be mischief...not now.
    When do you start glowing in the dark?

  3. Thanks for letting me know, Mom. I would really like to be there.

    I won't know that actual dates for my radioactive iodine treatments until I see my endocronologist on August 3rd.

    Love you both!

  4. Oh, Tanager, you just take the prize!! And you tell it in such detail that I could see it happening. : ) Love you guys!